At times some people come into our life’s and we know right away that they were meant to be there, to serve you some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson, or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to become in life!
You may never know where you may happen to meet that person. It may be that high school crush, that jack-ass of a tout that has been on your throat on your way home, that regular friend, that gangster-like dude that your parents would rather catch you dead with, your best friend, that guy from the royal family who is every girls fantasy, (hope he’s not reading this) that desk-mate in campus, that cute dude you’ve always had your eyes on and when the eyes finally meet, you quickly turn away and shyly pretend that you were not actually starring, that bloody neighbour who seems to know the current issues running in the hood! But finally, later on when your eyes lock with them, you know that at the very moment that something good is bound to happen ~maybe that lousy brat wasn’t bad after all!!!
Sometimes, some things have to happen for us to be able to appreciate life well. Pain, injury, illnesses, lost moments, guilt, pride, jealousy, envy, hatred, love and insults have to step on our way in order to make us stronger. You find that without overcoming these obstacles in life, you never realize your faith, strength, potential and will power ~courage is not defined by those who fought and did not fall, but by those who fell and rose again!
The people we meet every day in the journey of our lives are the success and also the downfalls that we have to face. They help you discover your destiny ~ who you really are and what you are to become!
If someone loves you, appreciate them back no matter what, even when you happen to think that they do not suite your personality, just a little thankyou may do. You may think that they are some bloody nuisance in your life but in a way, they are teaching you to love and to open your heart and eyes to things and people that pass near your space. But again ~never allow anyone to be a priority in your life when you happen to be an option in theirs!
To those who have hurt you betrayed or even broken your heart, kindly do not just sit there and cry your heart out or make yourself worn out by stress! Ooh yeah, I know am a victim of this, who isn’t anyway? But again we all need to style up by being strong ~when life treats you like a rock, become a stone!
Walk away when you wanted to stay, smile whenever tears begin running down your cheeks and wipe away the anger and say…“yeah, I know am gonna be fine!“, close your eyes and count to ten whenever you feel like choking someone for having trusted them too much, let go of some things because its time to! ~simply practise positivity!!!
Tomorrow is the day that comes but never ends…Embrace each day at a time! If you keep going over the past, you’re going to end up with a thousand pasts and no future!
Learn something new each passing moment, live your life to the fullest and for sure you gonna be a legend of our times, if you got that special someone you truly love, approach them and hold them by their hands .Tell them how much you appreciate their love, company, humor and also the little crazy things that they do ~ they mean a lot to you!
Make your everyday count. Appreciate every moment especially those that took your breath away, laugh as loud as you can, dance to your favourite lyrics, love like you’ve never been heartbroken before, pray as if your whole life depended on it, hold your head up and tell yourself that you are the best and you deserve nothing short of that, and lastly believe in yourself as it would be difficult for others to believe in you if you don’t!!!
Food for thought
Follow your heart but remember to take tour brains with you!!!
Cheers to all!


































